* starting support for sdpa in `gptneox` models
* small comment on tests
* fix dropout
* documentation and style
* clarify concrete paths for reference
* generalise attn projections and rope application
added head mask check to sdpa mask creation
handle sdpa memory backend bug via own version flag
* update docs and style
* move dtype casting outside of general attn_projection_and_rope function
fix flash_attn_2 stuff
* more generic attn warning if output_attns or head_mask
* simplify head mask check by moving head mask creation to a later point
* remove copied llama artifact
* remove padding_mask from attention function signature
* removing unnecessary comments, only "save" attn implementation once
* [run_slow] gpt_neox
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