🔴🔴🔴 [Attention] Refactor Attention Interface for Bart-based Models (#38108)

* starting attn refactor for encoder decoder models via bart (eager + sdpa)

* flash attention works, remove unnecessary code

* flex attention support for bart!, gotta check if the renaming is not too aggressive

* some comments

* skip flex grad test for standalone as done with the other test

* revert flex attn rename (for now), sdpa simplify, and todos

* more todos

* refactor mask creation for reuse

* modular attempt at biogpt

* first batch of other models

* fix attn dropout

* fix autoformer copies

* hubert

* another batch of models

* copies/style + last round of bart models --> whisper next?

* remove unnecessary _reshape function and remove copy to whisper

* add skip for decoder-only models out of enc-dec (same as in bart)

* bring back licences

* remove comment, added to pr read instead

* mostly docs

* disable sew flex attn as it's unclear attn mask for now

* oops

* test fixes for enc-dec

* torch fx fixes + try at flex attn

* skip on mbart

* some more fixes

* musicgen skip / delete old attn class logic + sdpa compose compile skip

* disable flex attn for musicgen, not worth the effort

* more fixes and style

* flex attention test for dropout and encoder decoder that dont have main input names

* informer fixes

* the weirdest thing I've encountered yet...

* style

* remove empty tensor attempt, found core root in previous commits

* disable time series due to tests being very text centric on inputs

* add speech to text to be ignoring the other attns, also due to tests

* update docs

* remaining issues resolved ?

* update docs for current state --> nllb moe and pegasus x sdpa is questionable :D

* some models have not set the is_causal flag...

* change dtype in softmax tol old behaviour + some modular fixes

* I hate it but it is what it is

* fixes from main for bart

* forgot this one

* some model fixes

* style

* current status

* marian works now

* fixing some copies

* some copy fixes + time series x informer

* last models possibly and fixes on style/copies

* some post merge fixes

* more fixes

* make attention interface callable and move warnings there

* style lol

* add comment to "unsupported"

* remove callable interface and change interface warnings + some copies

* fix

* ternary is ugly af, make it simpler

* how did that happen

* fix flex attn test

* failing the test

* no more fallback! fixing copies next

* style + attn fixed

* fixing copies and mask creation

* wrong copy

* fixup tests and disable flex attn for now

* fixup last tests?

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+<img alt="FlashAttention" src="https://img.shields.io/badge/%E2%9A%A1%EF%B8%8E%20FlashAttention-eae0c8?style=flat">
+<img alt="SDPA" src="https://img.shields.io/badge/SDPA-DE3412?style=flat&logo=pytorch&logoColor=white">
 </div>
 
 ## Overview
@@ -45,7 +47,7 @@ This model was contributed by [sshleifer](https://huggingface.co/sshleifer). The
 
 ## Usage tips and example
 
-Blenderbot is a model with absolute position embeddings so it's usually advised to pad the inputs on the right 
+Blenderbot is a model with absolute position embeddings so it's usually advised to pad the inputs on the right
 rather than the left.
 
 An example:
@@ -71,7 +73,7 @@ An example:
   `facebook/blenderbot_small_90M`, have a different architecture and consequently should be used with
   [BlenderbotSmall](blenderbot-small).
 
-  
+
 ## Resources
 
 - [Causal language modeling task guide](../tasks/language_modeling)