🚨🚨 Fix and simplify attention implementation dispatch and subconfigs handling (#39423)

* first try

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* big refactor

* Update modeling_utils.py

* style

* docstrings and simplify inner workings of configs

* remove all trace of _internal

* Update modeling_utils.py

* fix logic error

* Update modeling_utils.py

* recursive on config

* Update configuration_utils.py

* fix

* Update configuration_dpt.py

* Update configuration_utils.py

* Update configuration_utils.py

* Update modeling_idefics.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* fix for old models

* more old models fixup

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update configuration_utils.py

* Remove outdated test

* remove the deepcopy!! 🥵🥵

* Update test_modeling_gpt_bigcode.py

* fix qwen dispatch

* restrict to only models supporting it

* style

* switch name

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* add tests!

* fix

* rypo

* remove bad copies

* fix

* Update modeling_utils.py

* additional check

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* Update modeling_utils.py

* fix

* skip

tests/utils/test_configuration_utils.py

@@ -194,7 +194,6 @@ class ConfigTestUtils(unittest.TestCase):
                 "_name_or_path",
                 "_commit_hash",
                 "_attn_implementation_internal",
-                "_attn_implementation_autoset",
                 "transformers_version",
             ],
         )