Fix TF loading PT safetensors when weights are tied (#27490)

* Un-skip tests

* Add aliasing support to tf_to_pt_weight_rename

* Refactor tf-to-pt weight rename for simplicity

* Patch mobilebert

* Let us pray that the transfo-xl one works

* Add XGLM rename

* Expand the test to see if we can get more models to break

* Expand the test to see if we can get more models to break

* Fix MPNet (it was actually an unrelated bug)

* Fix MPNet (it was actually an unrelated bug)

* Add speech2text fix

* Update src/transformers/modeling_tf_pytorch_utils.py

Co-authored-by: amyeroberts <22614925+amyeroberts@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update src/transformers/models/mobilebert/modeling_tf_mobilebert.py

Co-authored-by: amyeroberts <22614925+amyeroberts@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update to always return a tuple from tf_to_pt_weight_rename

* reformat

* Add a couple of missing tuples

* Remove the extra test for tie_word_embeddings since it didn't cause any unexpected failures anyway

* Revert changes to modeling_tf_mpnet.py

* Skip MPNet test and add explanation

* Add weight link for BART

* Add TODO to clean this up a bit

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Co-authored-by: amyeroberts <22614925+amyeroberts@users.noreply.github.com>

tests/models/mpnet/test_modeling_mpnet.py

@@ -246,7 +246,7 @@ class MPNetModelTest(ModelTesterMixin, PipelineTesterMixin, unittest.TestCase):
         config_and_inputs = self.model_tester.prepare_config_and_inputs()
         self.model_tester.create_and_check_mpnet_for_question_answering(*config_and_inputs)
 
-    @unittest.skip("This isn't passing but should, seems like a misconfiguration of tied weights.")
+    @unittest.skip("TFMPNet adds poolers to all models, unlike the PT model class.")
     def test_tf_from_pt_safetensors(self):
         return